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Heartbreaking Update - How Much Is Too Much To Spend On A Sick Pet?

I asked this question 6 weeks ago when we had our dog's spleen removed. Today we put our girl to sleep...

How much is too much to spend on a sick pet?

I asked this question 6 weeks ago when we had our dog's spleen removed. Today we put our girl to sleep.

In the end, it was not about money. We would have spent $10,000 more on her today, but it was a question of life. The question of life far outweighs the question of how much money I would spend on a sick pet.

Would I do it all again? You are damn right I would and I would not change one thing. Every day of the last eight months was a gift, a blessing, a treasure! Removing her spleen was the best money we ever spent. Chino felt so good the last 6 weeks until last night. 

I have heard it all before - people telling me that when the time is right you will know or the dog will tell you. This morning before we left for the vet, I lay next to Chino on the floor and whispered that we will continue to fight this disease as long as she was willing. She looked up at me with her big brown eyes and for once she didn't bark to communicate with me. She looked at me and dug deep into my soul. I knew she was losing her fight.

However, we were going to the vet for a transfusion this morning so I thought perhaps I was just being pessimistic. By the time we got to the vet, our girl could hardly get up. Her disease was attacking her body more than she could handle. The vet said it best when he told us that we made the right decision. We fought more than many would fight but we stopped before it was inhumane. She felt great until yesterday and today she feels great again walking with my dad on the rainbow bridge.

alexa markoff November 29, 2011 at 01:54 pm
My condolences to you on the loss of your wonderful dog. Dogs are amazing because they communicate their wishes so well to those who part of their special circle. Because you unconditionally loved your dog, you did whatever it took to sustain a certain quality of life, but when that quality became diminished, you knew it was time to say good-bye. That was the greatest gift that you could ever give to your beloved dog...
Jenny Stringer November 29, 2011 at 02:11 pm
She was an amazing pup!! Thank you for your kind words!
laura November 29, 2011 at 03:31 pm
The vet said the same thing to me...."he'll let you know when it's time." I didn't really believe it until "the time" came. Incredibly, he did let me know. I too spent a lot of money to keep my cat alive, and though things were difficult for me financially, the time I had with him was worth every penny. He felt good until one day he didn't. On that day, he hid under my bed and wouldn't come out. When I tried to get him out from under it, he growled and hissed at me. Something he'd never done before. That was when I knew it was time. I called the vet and made the appointment. Shortly after the appointment was made, he came out from under the bed and got into his basket (he loved lying in baskets). His symptoms improved to the point that I wondered if maybe I'd made the wrong decision in making the appointment, but he still wouldn't eat or drink, so I knew I had to follow through. I spent every second with him until the very end. My vet was wonderful. They came to my house to do it & then took him when they left. The send me an imprint of his paw and gave me a condolence card with the Rainbow Bridge story on it. It sounds so stupid, but the imprint and the Rainbow Bridge were so comforting then and still are today...almost 3 years later. Something else that made me feel better was the book "The Art of Racing in the Rain" by Garth Stein. I cried my eyes out when reading it, but ultimately, it was comforting.
Erin December 14, 2011 at 11:06 pm
I am so sorry that your dog lost her battle. I have a dog at home as well. Seeing her cute face and wagging tail always brightens up my day. Whenever I talk to her I feel like she listens and understands me. Dogs really comfort you and are always there when you need them. It is sad to hear the way things turned out but I believe you did the right thing.
Nora Palenica November 21, 2012 at 03:23 pm
Aw Jenny your words are beautiful, it seems like heaven is getting a pretty good pack up there... Love you-

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